Ah, these men! They won’t come up with anything to get what they want or to get out of the ice shower dry. But we, beautiful ladies, are not bastard, so before we believe in the words of our fiancé, we must check whether everything is really the way he tells us. Or just turn everything to your advantage. How to do it? Easy. So…
... if the husband refuses to help with the housework, citing fatigue.
In no case do not try to prove that you also work and prefer to relax, but take a watch by the stove every time a sweet homemade dumpling with bechamel is desired. Just make him an offer to ignore which he lacks willpower. For example, "you know, I saw Vaska from the 125th apartment, he invited you to watch football tonight." And after the husband jumps up from the couch and picks himself up for a visit, add "you will go home - lend a drill, otherwise the cornice has been standing in the corner for the second week, so you will hang it."
... if the husband returns late from work, explaining this with a handicap.
It is also not worth doing the Gestapo physiognomy and conducting an inquiry with the filling out of three carbon copy forms. You are the best wife in the world, and therefore caring and smart! So pick up the brakes and go straight to his office! If he doesn’t lie and really works without a break, he will be glad to have a tasty snack. Otherwise, you will learn a lot of new things ... and if you are lucky, then you will meet some people.
... if the husband offers to quit work, because then you can only do what you love.
You, of course, understand that the hubby stands for his own skin, and not for your nerves, because it is so nice to come in the evening to a clean apartment, where a table is already laid and candles are lit. This I exaggerate, but still. Where, then, will your financial independence and diverse interests be? But do not refuse immediately. Take a vacation and spend it, devoting all the time to yourself. Sign up for shaping, Japanese courses, and the Wild Cat Protection Society. Husband is satisfied with this order of affairs? Well, quit, he really ... a man who loves you.
... if the husband says that he is going to a friend’s birthday, but you definitely remember that none of his friends have a holiday on this day.
At the celebrations are usually with gifts and congratulations. Cake and flowers are a unisex option, but somewhat bored. Offer your help in choosing a truly masculine present - spinning, tie, cufflinks or something else from this series. Does your husband insist that you interfere with him? Resists and tries to secretly go into the department of lingerie? Everything is clear here, go to the banquet with him and get acquainted with the birthday man.
... if you find something in your husband’s pockets that a priori should not be there, and he says that he has no idea where it came from.
Don’t be so upset. And think for a start, maybe someone in the subway made a mistake in his pocket, instead of his stuff in his stuff. And what, everything happens. There in the news they said that a million homeless people in the trash found "greens". So, calm and peace again. It’s best not to even show your awareness. The truth will come out.
Well, finally -
... how to distinguish pretense if nothing suspicious happened.
Everything is quiet, peaceful, and life goes on like clockwork? So you have to rejoice! No, you say, some vague doubts gnaw at you? Then you need to do something about it. And the most effective way is to take your husband by surprise. He is only at the door, and you rush to him shouting "I KNOW EVERYTHING!". It is highly probable that you will really know if he is frightened and exposes his sins, as in a confessional. But will it only make it easier?
If you have to deal with a situation that is not described here, do not despair, but rather make your own collection of tips to combat pretense. You look and come in handy when.
Text: Matrena Barabanova
