All human life is a "carousel" of diverse events. And, of course, certain circumstances arise in it that are simply beyond your control. You started a relationship with a girl who was the limit of your dreams, but suddenly something went different than you expected.
However sad it may seem, love sometimes fades away. Of course, it is possible for a long time to rant about the true causes of the extinction of a former emotional impulse, but as they say: "You won’t go against the facts." Relationships have already outlived themselves, and it's time to "scatter" on different sides.
Alas, this is not an isolated case. But one question, if the breakup was a mutual solution and completely different, if the love went away with someone alone. And, of course, in such a situation, the man begins to reason reasonably and the question arises: "How to" gently "and beautifully tell about this girl so as not to hurt her much?".
Perhaps many men will immediately begin to blame themselves for such an outcome of events (especially when it comes to breaking up with a chosen one, whom they are still attracted to) and will think that the future of the second former half is “crossed out” through their fault.
Drive such evil thoughts from yourself! All people make mistakes. But the most important thing is that if you are "racking your brains" over how to leave your chosen one correctly and as painlessly as possible, this only indicates that you are a respectable person.
In addition, the fact of ignorance will be much worse for a girl. And if you do not "pull the rubber", she will have much more time to further equip her future life. The paramount moment in such a delicate situation is to present annoying news carefully, without "spitting in the soul" and try to do without conflicts.
"Hot" ten methods of beautiful and amicable parting
Of course, the most successful variation of the gap will be a method in which you will make every effort so that the end of the relationship becomes a mutual solution. But, as everyone knows, representatives of the strong sex are very severe in comparison with beautiful young ladies. And just this is their wrong move. Lovely ladies should behave extremely "diplomatically" so that her self-esteem would not be harmed in any way.
It is important to know: under no circumstances can one be informed about the termination of relations in social networks or via SMS.
Besides the fact that you completely ruin her life, and still manage to do it from a distance. Be a real man, not a cowardly coward!
So, here is the “hot” dozen how to put an end to the relationship beautifully and painlessly:
Trekhsvidanka with a reverse stroke. A similar method is the most tolerant. The bottom line is that a man completely unobtrusively provokes his chosen one to break off his relationship. To do this, he completely and completely "transforms" into a non-initiative person:
Systematically evades from any contact with his chosen one.
Does not have sex with her or reduces sexual activity to zero (does everything very sluggishly). After intimacy, "stupidly" turns away in the opposite direction and falls asleep.
Never be the first to call.
As a result, he is engaged in complete ignore. In the end, the girl will get tired of it, and she will break off the relationship.
Friendly, intimate conversation. It is necessary to arrange a meeting and openly declare your "sentence." The main thing is not to twitch, not to bounce, not to lose self-control and to say everything as in spirit. You can not shout at a girl and prove to her that you are right in case of a dispute, go on insults, even if she will allow herself to do so. During the conversation, first of all, focus on its merits.
Strong quarrel. The easiest method. If a man came to the decision to leave, then the relationship is no longer ideal and is likely to be accompanied by regular quarrels. At the next serious quarrel, you should inform your chosen one about the breakup, and then put into action the second method (heart-to-heart talk).
Break with a secret. Ask your friend to "drive" to the girl with whom you want to break off relations. Let him look after her, but under the circumstances, sex is excluded. And you at this moment "reincarnate" into an absolutely unbearable man. Thus, her attention will switch to another, and parting will become inevitable, and she will be the initiator.
Positive Care. Such a breakup technique is not applicable to men who live with their companion in the same town. It should be said to the girl that you were suddenly "drawn" to the boys, but you need to talk about it confidently and sincerely, otherwise she will not "bite" your fishing rod.
Intolerable roar after intimacy. After sex, start sobbing like a baby. Perhaps a couple of times the girl will regret you, but in the following she will understand that you are "abnormal" and she will leave you.
Become a greed. This is a delightful method of parting, while at the same time presenting ourselves in the eyes of our chosen one as stingy. Stop giving her gifts or present very cheap and completely unnecessary. Spend as much money on her as you travel together. In the end, she herself will run away from you.
Parting in prose. You need to arrange a meeting in a beautiful restaurant, warning the girl in advance that you have a serious conversation with her. Compose a beautiful poem in advance or ask someone to help you (in this case, there is the Internet). This will somewhat reduce the bitterness of the gap, and she will remember you with a kind word.
A wide gesture of farewell. The most beautiful method. Give goodbye to a gorgeous gift and a handwritten letter that says about your decision to leave.
Blow on yourself. Tell your girlfriend that it was you and only you who became the cause of the break. That it is ideal for you and you are not a couple of such "excellence".
In any case, parting is stress for both partners. But you will have the opportunity to choose the appropriate method of breaking for you, which will slightly alleviate the pain of separation and you will remain a true gentleman.
