A woman can do a lot out of nothing, but best of all, she will get a scandal. Why? Yes, just no ingredients are needed, except for a second disappointment in some nonsense. And then - like skittles, touched one topic, the rest rained down on their own. Moreover, it’s chaotic and unpredictable, as a result of which the quarrel “you always leave the plates on the couch” turns into “it’s your own fault that Abramovich bought my dream yacht because you didn’t have three million for it."
Well, in fact, it rarely comes to this, one of the two already in the second hour of a family storm does not stand up and slams the front door loudly, and then drinks beer in the garage and recalls the serene kindergarten years. And then comes to put up, and everything falls into place ...
However, think: is it so pleasant to spend precious minutes of life on small and large squabbles? Moreover, in addition to giving neighbors-gossips a reason for one evening of “bench gatherings” to get you apart, to marry a dwarf stripper and to write off all your broken windows in the entrance — they say, they cracked from loud screams. It is much easier to eke out a quiet and peaceful life, filled with, nevertheless, interesting events. How? Read on.
To emotions - to be silent !!!
Do you think you’re so tired of the daily broadcasts of Eurocup matches? And here you are mistaken. It is your stress that requires a way out, but since he suffers from laziness, he is looking for the easiest ways. Follow your example. The easiest way to avoid conflict in this case is rest and relaxation. Go, for example, to a massage. Or ask your husband to make it for you, so you’ll kill two birds with one stone - you’ll get pleasure and the tunes of “ole-ole-ole” will not disturb your soul.
The right to personal freedom
When did you get married, did you choose the groom by typing with your finger on the list of random guys? Not? So, they knew about all his preferences, including his love of soldering on the kitchen table. So do not try to re-educate a person with already formed habits at all costs, use them for your own good. For example, buy the book "Entertaining crafts." So broaden your horizons, and you can make something useful.
Adult means smart
In infancy, weeping and screaming you achieved almost everything. But now what is the old thing to remember? Your problems are completely different, and raising their decibels cannot be resolved. Take your husband by the scruff, sit on the sofa and the two of you will find a compromise. A good example - he wants new subwoofers, and you new coat on the floor? Drop lots and buy both items in turn. So the family budget will be preserved, and the family itself.
Well, if it’s absolutely unbearable, then instead of swearing ... sing. Best of all - something fervent and funny that will cheer you up and discourage the hunt for confusion.
