It is impossible to know what a particular person thinks about you. But it is always important for a woman that a man she likes, think only about her. Such thoughts visit every woman, but how to realize their desires? How to make a man think about you at a distance? The following are effective tips: from simple recommendations to action and psychological stuff. Use these techniques - and the man is not going anywhere from you.
Standard tips for this are:
• Regularly let us know about yourself. The effectiveness of such a recommendation is not very high, but it can help, so to speak, in the long term, when it will simply get used to the fact that you are always there.
• Try to wear sexy outfits for meetings with these people: a short skirt, tight dress, “uzkachi” jeans - assume that half the work has been done. By the way, experts proved that it is fitting jeans for men are considered the sexiest clothes of the XXI century.
• Give him some gift, it is desirable that he could hang it on his neck or on his hand. This will allow you to think about you unobtrusively every time. Some things in the form of a cup for coffee will also help to think about you every morning while he is enjoying his “invigorating” drink.
• Send him a funny text message in the morning. This is not only an opportunity to express yourself, but also a gift in the form of positive emotions for the whole day. And it is worth a lot.
• If you work in the same institution, ask the man how his morning went, what is his mood, how is he doing?
• Effect the effect on his friends. Try to listen to other people, and you will definitely learn about their problems. And if there is an opportunity to help your man's best friend, then consider that you already have an assistant who stands on the same level with his mom. If his friends are the only case of absolutely trouble-free people, then surprise them with their beauty and erudition.
But there are more "advanced" ways. Below are described 7 very effective ways that can lead a man to think about you almost constantly, and one particularly effective method from which he can lose his head at all 🙂 So:
Method 1: Jealousy
The feeling of jealousy in itself is not the best of emotions, but it is a good helper for a woman. In this case, the stick is desirable not to bend, and slightly flirt with another man. You can not even with another man, but only with your smartphone ...
The human psyche of both sexes is arranged in such a way that if the time for jealousy has come, it means that it will make a person constantly furious to think about the “object” of his anxieties.
Method 2: Delicious dinners
This covert psychological game has been played by women for hundreds of years. Naturally, dinner should take place in a pleasant atmosphere: dim lights (but candles are not necessary or even desirable), pleasant music (but not necessarily classical), a good movie (not necessarily romantic) - and most importantly, very tasty food (mom always said that the path to a man lies through his stomach - and as always she was right). Moreover, it is not necessary to be some kind of guru in matters of cooking, you can even order ready-made pizza or sushi in your favorite cafe. The main thing is that the pleasant sensations of delicious food, pleasant atmosphere and comfort are strongly associated with you. Therefore, the center of all this action should be you in all your best seductive attire magnificence.
This will make the man mentally returning to such evenings to think first of all about you and to desire it again.
Method 3: The method of "closer-on"
Such a way to intrigue a man just drives him crazy. You just keep a loved one at a distance. First, treat him with sympathy, and then turn on the "cold". And then it's up to him. He sits and thinks, and what he did wrong, where he blundered and so on. If you play the game very skillfully, the result will not take long. The main thing is not to play hard, otherwise the bait will fall off the hook.
Method 4: Friendly
And it consists in building a common cause where common interests would be implicated. Suppose he goes to the gym - it's time for you to sign up. And it is useful, and the man will always be in sight. Loves to run in the morning - wear sneakers. At the same time, your actions do not look intrusive, because you are doing everything “for the company”, individually. And since you are so often together, the man will have an interest in you, he will want to know about you as much as possible.
Method 5: listening skills
If a woman knows how to listen, and does not constantly chatter about her problems (you still have time), then this is pleasant and cannot but cause positive feelings in a man. Do you think only you need a "vest" in which you can "cry out"? At first you will become just a friend to him, and after that you will become closer to your closest person!
Method 6: Make him lose you
This is exactly the moment when a man starts to think about you from a distance. Get lost for a while after some event where everything was so beautiful with you. Do not call him or pick up the phone when he calls. It always works at 100%. Wait a couple of days, and then declare yourself in a relaxed manner. Dial his number first and ask how are you. During communication, remember how good it was for you once. And then end the conversation - let him think.
Method 7: Both useful and non-standard
Borrow money from a man, but think about how much he can give, so as not to cause confusion in him. This brave method will start to work when exactly on time you give him money with words of such gratitude, as if he saved your life. Make him a hero - men love it.
Psychological Mind Games - Anchor Technique
There is one secret psychological method. It is called an anchor. Its meaning is that, regularly, day after day, you do the same action (smile at him when you pass by his office, send SMS at the same time in the morning, etc.). Develop a steady habit for a man for a couple of weeks.
Then we take the “closer-further” technique when you simply turn on the “cold”. And then he does everything himself: he thinks, why did you stop writing to him, what happened, maybe his reason? The main thing is not to overdo it, so that your young man does not begin to twitch at your voice and laugh nervously at your smile. It is worth knowing in all measure.
The whole heap of useful actions can force your man to think of you hourly. At the same time, it is important to bring creativity, creativity and originality into the work. Yes, and remember that it is better not to repeat, so as not to be ridiculed, or to be branded as an insane. We wish you good luck in conquering the man of your dreams!
